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Congratulations! Your litttle lady is getting married. But being the mother of the bride (or MOB) is not an easy role – not only is it a big job, but a job that has changed significantly over the years. Years ago mom of the bride did most of the wedding planning, and thus got to have their own dreams realized. These days, your daughter will probably have her own vision – which can differ drastically with yours. Here's how to play your role with aplomb. Responsibilities of the mother of the bride: First and foremost, be a warm listener, chief cheerleader, constant complimenter, and otherwise a source of support for your daughter. Help the bride find the custom-made wedding dress of her dreams, and also other wedding attire. Help look for wedding and reception locations, particularly if your wedding reception is taking place in your home town and not theirs.

If you haven't already met, contact the groom's parents and arrange to meet. Choose your affordable mother of the bride dresses as soon as possible, then let the groom's mother know what you have picked. If possible, send her a swatch of the fabric and/or pictures so that she can look for a gown that will compliment yours. Discuss your wedding reception budget with your daughter and her fiancé, including what you are willing to pay for, and the ideal total number of guests. Quickly draw up the guest list for your side of the family, and later, near the date of the wedding, call many guests who are late in RSVPing. Reserve blocks of hotel rooms for your out-of-town guests, and possibly other guests as well. Help spread the word about where the couple are registered. Act as person hosting at the wedding and reception, making sure guests are comfortable. This also includes standing in the receiving line, sitting at the parents table, and making sure the bride has approached all her guests.